7/9/2026
35:29
E167 | Sleep Is a Boundary
You know sleep matters, but why do so many of us still blow past bedtime and wake up feeling wired, puffy, hungry, and foggy? We’re getting real about the patterns that keep women stuck, even when they’ve tried the classic sleep hygiene tips like magnesium glycinate, a colder room, or “just getting off your phone.”
We talk about the second wind problem and what’s really happening when you get sleepy around 9, push through it, and suddenly find yourself energized at 10:30. We name revenge bedtime procrastination for what it is: a fight for decompression, autonomy, pleasure, or avoidance when your day felt like it belonged to everyone else. Then we connect the dots to real physiology, including cortisol rhythm, melatonin timing, blood sugar swings, cravings, and the way a constantly upregulated nervous system makes it hard to feel safe enough to shut down.
From the mindset side, we get practical. We unpack why “I should go to bed” creates pressure and resistance, and how tiny, realistic promises rebuild self-trust. You’ll leave with repeatable tools that support circadian rhythm and calmer nights: a consistent wake time, morning light, caffeine boundaries, a work cutoff tied to a ritual, getting your phone out of your bed, and a minimal nighttime routine that doesn’t require a 12-step checklist.
If this hit home, pick one sleep boundary to test for a week and tell us what you chose. Subscribe for more, share this with a friend who’s tired of feeling tired, and leave a five-star review so more women can find the show.
